New Opportunity - FInancial Domination!

First off if you don't know what Fin Dom is, you are probably pretty confused right now so let me explain. It's a form of sexual humiliation where a submissive man derives erotic pleasure from being used as a slave by a powerful mistress. His slavery is in the form of financial tributes. Basically she takes his money and treats him like shit.

Yes this sounds a lot like a bad marriage, but I digress.

The roots of financial submission and domination are in the mastery and control on the part of a dominatrix and the loss of control and feeling of helplessness on the part of the submissive. Moreso than other relationships, dom-sub relationships are complex, so there are surely many variations of this. In general, financial domination is when the submissive pays cash tributes to his mistress, submits to her blackmail and places his financial health in her hands.

For these men, the relationship is very rewarding sexually even though there is no chance they'll ever have sex with their goddess. Honestly, why would a beautiful dominant female ever lower herself to copulate with a pathetic submissive? He derives his pleasure from allowing her to live a life fitting a goddess (or as much of it as he can afford to).

Can you be a financial dominatrix?

I used to think that you need to have a very dominant, bitchy personality that submissive guys would respond to, but the more research I do the more I find that these guys are SO submissive and SO pathetic that as long as you are willing to take a guy's money and call him a lowly slug or something, you'll find a few guys to 'worship' you.

Let me put it this way - if this shy, passive thing can be a domme:



Anyone can be. She strikes me as incredibly passive but it seems to work, so I think that as long as you can say things like:

"You are a weak-willed beta male or you wouldn't be reading this.
You've wanted to be abused and exploited by a beautiful, dominant
woman for a long time but you haven't acted on that urge. You
are going to act now, because you desperately want me, Mistress
Mitsukai, to control you through blackmail. I am the most sadistic,
devious woman you could find and I will get what I want out of you
because you are going to give me the power to destroy your life. In
this clip you will watch me strip down to my hot lingerie and reveal
my incredible body as I twist your little mind around. After watching
this you will be unable to resist giving me everything I need to control
you."

with a straight face, than the sky is the limit.

Sugar Daddy, fact or fiction?

I recently saw a very popular article on Huffington Post about the Sugar Daddy - Sugar Baby scene. for those of you not in the the know the scene is called the 'sugar bowl' and is where eligible young women are compensated for their company by older gentlemen of means.

Or at least that's the theory, the myth. Is there some reality to it some where? Absolutely. As long as there are rich men and pretty women they will find a way to get together. But these websites that claim to offer a virtual Ebay of rich men willing to treat you like a princess, is there anything to them?

I say no, not really. These sites are just thinly veiled prostitution. Just read through the HuffPo article:

"While she and her host hadn't agreed to a set amount of money, on the drive back to the train station in Greenwich he handed her $350 in cash. She pocketed the envelope, seeing it as decent money for half a day's work. But once on the train and no longer worried for her safety, she started to agonize over what she had just done."

This girl just spent a day with a John and for $350 for sex. There are escorts who make more in 1 hour...and, as the article reveals, he never called her again.

Do a little research and you can find threads on cam girl message boards where they talk endless about how dead and filled with losers most of the big sugar daddy sites are or you'll find comments like this from sugar-bloggers:

"Or the fact that more and more sugar daddies without substantial means are entering the arena. They are aware that this segment of the industry is flooded with sugar babies and they are calling the shots. There are now websites that allow men to pay for dates with suggested prices as low as $25. It’s your guess what activity most of these sugar daddies seek."

She's hinting at exactly what I believe is going on. Guys are using the PROMISE of a rich sugar daddy to turn you into a low priced escort.

Girls, keep in mind that men are bastards, and act accordingly.

Another new site - Chaturbate.

I will say one thing up front, I LOVE the name of this site. Although I think it should be Chatsturbate. Basically it's like a kinda rip off of Chatroulette I think where regular people can cam, the twist is that they pay you.

Of course the REAL twist is that they don't pay you much and half of the site is ads! LOL. Here's how it works - they proclaim that they give away huge dollars:

"EASY MONEY! Each month, Chaturbate gives $11,000+ in prize money!"

Wow, you must be thinking! $11,000, that's a lot of cheddar! Well the bitch of it is, they give it out $10 at a time and to 'win' it you need to have the most visitors in your room for an hour. Yeah...so...no. You can drive a forklift at Costco with your clothes on for $19 an hour with benefits. You can squirt espresso at Starbucks and meet cute guys for $10 an hour and get free drinks.

Plus the site is brand new and hasn't got crap for traffic. I know that if you take a look at the site it seems like there are 100's of people in the rooms watching but if you use a little brain power you might be able to see through this BS. For example in the above screen cap one of the rooms is clearly labelled as an ad 'Flirt4Free' and the icon says there are 23 people watching it. Just to the left of it there are 38 people watching a bald black man eat a tv dinner, while right above that only 27 people are watching a chick finger herself. Also there's this: 199 people watching parakeets:

So, bottom line - skip it. Even if you came up with some lame idea for a game on MFC during peak hours you could bank more than $10 an hour, guaranteed.

The best places to sell pics and vids.

I've been putting together a list of the best places to sell pics and vids online, to compare sites.

I had to make a judgement call on what 'best' really means, if I have to be specific I'd say there are two criteria: customers and costs. I don't know if there is a magic ratio where a lower percentage will be made up for by higher traffic or vice versa, but I've tried to compile the main outlets along with their price versus traffic below:

For starters, the sites I've done extensive research into (keep in mind this blog isn't about camming, it's about selling pre-made pics and vids and stuff):

So I did a lot of research into ExtraLunchMoney and MyGirlFund as you can see by their pages up at the top. So how do these two stack up?

1. MGF - Percentage is variable, from 10-35% depending on how much you earn over the lifetime of your fund. Traffic wise they have about 21,000 a day. Not exactly setting the internet on fire, but it's decent.

2. Extra Lunch Money - They use a credit system where a buyer pays $1 per credit and when you cash out you get 65 cents, meaning their take is 35%. As for traffic, they are pretty new and boast about 1000 visitors a day.

Raw visitor numbers are easy to quantify, but it's more difficult to judge quality. For example, ELM is very active on Twitter and message boards, so most of their visitors are probably girls on the sales side, not as many customers while most other sites leave the promotion to the models, meaning the visitors are more likely to be customers.

3. Clips 4 Sale - Probably the original place to sell pics and vids. They take a little bit more - 40%, but their traffic is huge, 427,000 a day. Granted most of it is directly to individual stores or users, but that's nothing to sneeze at.

4. Hot Movies - Seems like a very poor deal as they take 80% of the purchase price (yipe!) despite the huge amount of visitors they have, over 580,000.

5. Rude - Uses a token system but is set up to take 50% of the sale price. More than made up for by the huge amount of traffic, over 1.4 million visitors every day!

6. Skin Video - Is a decent sized site, but they charge 50%. So 51,000 a day and 50%.

7.  X-Tube - Is the biggest site on my list at 2.7 million visitors a day. They take 50% as well.

So there you have it, choose wisely and good luck, ladies.

Um, yeah. Most home jobs suck ASS.

Before I started researching this stuff I thought that there would be a lot more variety in jobs you can do from home. I was, admittedly, hella wrong. As it turns out here are your choices:

1. Talk to horny guys on a site like MyGirlFund.

2. Do whatever the hell this is:

Hello, horny guys?

Extra Lunch Money, extra creepy? **UPDATED**

Apparently "benic" responded to my post insisting he's not creepy. I have a one word response:

ORLY?

LOLOLOLOL. You run a site where girl sell pictures of them peeing on themselves, own your creepiness.

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I originally found Extra Lunch Money through Twitter, as they have been very active there and I investigated the site. The concept looks good and it seems pretty legit. I was thinking of putting up a pic set but before I did I wanted to do some research to see if they were legit and I ran across a few very creepy things that put me off the site.

First up, if you click over to their blog you'll see a bunch of bizarre interviews that a creeper calling himself "benic" is doing. Here's an example:

I have no idea what the point of these interviews are other than to give "benic" a chance to talk to girls, LOL. The thing that concerned me is that some of the interviews are with former street prostitutes. What on earth does that have to do with selling erotica online? As far as I know selling erotica is legal and fun, and being a street prostitute is skeezy, illegal and disgusting.

So why would you want to associate criminals with your website? That right there would be enough to warn me off of Extra Lunch Money.

I found another thing REALLY bothered me tho, it looks like they are trying to recruit girls on teen forums to pose for the site. That seems REALLY creepy to me and possibly illegal. Here's a screen shot of someone publicizing Extra Lunch Money on a teen sexuality forum:

The forum is on the LiveWire forum site and it's for discussion of teen sexuality. This instantly reminded me of the Alxea DiCarlo fiasco from a few months ago - a creepy guy posing as a woman on teen forums to lure young women into prostitution in that case.

If I were running Extra Lunch Money I'd go out of my way to avoid stuff like this, and I'd probably fire "benic" for associating street prostitutes with my site. So, my opinion, use at your own risk.

TIps for working online.

There are basically three ways to get paid on a cam site - some cam sites allow tipping and some do not, some allow you to sell content and some do not, and some allow you to offer private shows and some do not.  This article is for those girls who are on sites such as MyFreeCams or Streamate, which allows the members to tip, or go private for one-on-ones  or off site for Skype shows, or sites like MyGirFund where you can sell content and do one-on-one shows.

It depends on what you’re comfortable with, but you can make a lot using just the tip feature provided by some websites if you are better live, or just by selling content if you are better doing scripted or personal shows.  Whatever your biggest strength is, use it as much as you can.  If you do, you’ll make more money in the long run than trying a little bit of everything.

Here are some tips for getting tips:

1. Update your topic/status every time you log in.  Keep it fun, sexy and flirty. Give guys a reason to talk to you about it, so they don't just start in with 'SHOW ME UR TITS BB!'

2. Set multiple goals for members to reach.  If they reach the goal, they get a “prize” such as a flash, a strip tease, a nude dance, a huge thank you, etc. this way they don't get discouraged that if they give you a small tip that they won't see anything good.

3.  Remind the guys in your room about your higher goal, but be careful not to sound like a beggar.  So as you build up the small goals on your way to your larger goal you are making money all along, and you are making your time pay, while keeping it fun for the guys.

Here are some tips for your Clips4Sale store or MyGirFund account:

1. Have a set goal on what you want to earn for each set, you can add other things in as a bonus, but make sure you know what you are actually getting per set or per video. Factor in the % that the site takes and the cost of the payout for every set.

2. Be sure to cultivate a set of regulars that you can go to every time you upload a new video. If you have 10-20 regulars that you say hi to and talk to on a regular basis, when you upload a new clip or set, they are very likely to buy, so you could easily sell 10 copies of a video the day you upload it, just to your regulars. If you are making $10-$15 per video, that's a $100 day right off the bat after only 10 mins of work!

3. Try to avoid sob stories. It is tempting to be honest with guys about what your situation is but it's actually counterproductive. Instead of finding guys who are interested in you and want to be friends/supporters, you are broadcasting that you are depressing and people tend to stay away from depressing people. If you want to attract guys and customers, you need to be positive and interesting, since people gravitate towards positive, interesting people.