New Opportunity - FInancial Domination!

First off if you don't know what Fin Dom is, you are probably pretty confused right now so let me explain. It's a form of sexual humiliation where a submissive man derives erotic pleasure from being used as a slave by a powerful mistress. His slavery is in the form of financial tributes. Basically she takes his money and treats him like shit.

Yes this sounds a lot like a bad marriage, but I digress.

The roots of financial submission and domination are in the mastery and control on the part of a dominatrix and the loss of control and feeling of helplessness on the part of the submissive. Moreso than other relationships, dom-sub relationships are complex, so there are surely many variations of this. In general, financial domination is when the submissive pays cash tributes to his mistress, submits to her blackmail and places his financial health in her hands.

For these men, the relationship is very rewarding sexually even though there is no chance they'll ever have sex with their goddess. Honestly, why would a beautiful dominant female ever lower herself to copulate with a pathetic submissive? He derives his pleasure from allowing her to live a life fitting a goddess (or as much of it as he can afford to).

Can you be a financial dominatrix?

I used to think that you need to have a very dominant, bitchy personality that submissive guys would respond to, but the more research I do the more I find that these guys are SO submissive and SO pathetic that as long as you are willing to take a guy's money and call him a lowly slug or something, you'll find a few guys to 'worship' you.

Let me put it this way - if this shy, passive thing can be a domme:



Anyone can be. She strikes me as incredibly passive but it seems to work, so I think that as long as you can say things like:

"You are a weak-willed beta male or you wouldn't be reading this.
You've wanted to be abused and exploited by a beautiful, dominant
woman for a long time but you haven't acted on that urge. You
are going to act now, because you desperately want me, Mistress
Mitsukai, to control you through blackmail. I am the most sadistic,
devious woman you could find and I will get what I want out of you
because you are going to give me the power to destroy your life. In
this clip you will watch me strip down to my hot lingerie and reveal
my incredible body as I twist your little mind around. After watching
this you will be unable to resist giving me everything I need to control
you."

with a straight face, than the sky is the limit.

Sugar Daddy, fact or fiction?

I recently saw a very popular article on Huffington Post about the Sugar Daddy - Sugar Baby scene. for those of you not in the the know the scene is called the 'sugar bowl' and is where eligible young women are compensated for their company by older gentlemen of means.

Or at least that's the theory, the myth. Is there some reality to it some where? Absolutely. As long as there are rich men and pretty women they will find a way to get together. But these websites that claim to offer a virtual Ebay of rich men willing to treat you like a princess, is there anything to them?

I say no, not really. These sites are just thinly veiled prostitution. Just read through the HuffPo article:

"While she and her host hadn't agreed to a set amount of money, on the drive back to the train station in Greenwich he handed her $350 in cash. She pocketed the envelope, seeing it as decent money for half a day's work. But once on the train and no longer worried for her safety, she started to agonize over what she had just done."

This girl just spent a day with a John and for $350 for sex. There are escorts who make more in 1 hour...and, as the article reveals, he never called her again.

Do a little research and you can find threads on cam girl message boards where they talk endless about how dead and filled with losers most of the big sugar daddy sites are or you'll find comments like this from sugar-bloggers:

"Or the fact that more and more sugar daddies without substantial means are entering the arena. They are aware that this segment of the industry is flooded with sugar babies and they are calling the shots. There are now websites that allow men to pay for dates with suggested prices as low as $25. It’s your guess what activity most of these sugar daddies seek."

She's hinting at exactly what I believe is going on. Guys are using the PROMISE of a rich sugar daddy to turn you into a low priced escort.

Girls, keep in mind that men are bastards, and act accordingly.